“male body language of love”

Traditionally women are thought to be the sex who prance and preen to impress. However, although played out differently, men also ‘peacock’, engaging in preening and tidying behaviors to communicate attraction. He might fix his socks by pulling them up or adjusting them, play with the buttons nervously on his jacket (which can be an unconscious desire to remove his clothes) or stroke his tie.  These are all ways of saying that he likes you enough to want to look good for you. So if he is fiddling and sprucing, it is not necessarily nerves, but is his way of ensuring he looks his Sunday best to impress!

Boob Shoulder: As I mentioned in the first paragraph, what we define as being “sexy” or “hot” is our male and female gender differences, which in women is mostly composed of having more curvaceous bodies than men.  A form of highlighting this fact is a gesture known as the Boob Shoulder, where women will choose to look at men (in the first parts of courtships before meeting) sideways while raising their shoulder slightly upwards, symbolically making it appear like a breast to emphasize their femininity.

Dominant individuals will also have a firm handshake. They will usually place their hand on top with their palm facing downwards; the grip will be firm and sustained in order to demonstrate control.[34]

When a man plays with his glass or canned beverage, it means he’s sexually attracted to you. According to Today’s website, men will start playing with their glass or can because their circular shape subconsciously reminds them of your breasts.

Men have always had a fascination with their own crotch.  Without caring if it’s in public or not, we’ll freely adjust our packages, especially in situations with large groups of other males where there’s competitive behavior.  This can be observed between groups of fans from opposing teams, at a pub, or watching a sporting match, men will constantly start moving around the front of their pants as a way to demonstrate their masculinity.  This isn’t something new – in packs of monkeys the leader will spread his legs widely to display his “sword” (men who are feeling cocky or dominant will also sit down while spreading their legs widely).  Monkeys also stand up while touching “it” in front of their subordinates and bossing them around.  Additionally, ancient tribes used cones to put around their penises as a way of highlighting their rank – the higher the rank of the tribal member the bigger the cone.  The ladies man of the 15th century King Henry VIII,  popularized a type of underwear where he used a codpiece that protruded from the pants with braies fitted with a flap in the front that buttoned or tied to close when needing to urinate.  From these ideas came the modern tightly fitting briefs/jocks (from this piece of clothing comes the name ‘Sports Jocks’ which displays dominance and is popular with the girls).  These jocks give men a sense of “protection”, as they can constantly adjust their jocks to draw the attention of others down there.  When men are interested in a female they will, in one way or another, draw attention to the genital area most frequently using the “Package” gesture.

When the happy couple sits next to each other their signs or signals of body language once again will include touch.  The couple may be holding hands or one person may place their hand on the leg of their partner or on their back. It may even be that one person leans on the other person. Their body language for the most part will seem comfortable when looking that them.

Stress compromises your ability to communicate. When you’re stressed out, you’re more likely to misread other people, send confusing or off-putting nonverbal signals, and lapse into unhealthy knee-jerk patterns of behavior. And remember: emotions are contagious. You being upset is very likely to make others upset, thus a bad situation worse.

Mirroring – the synchronizing or matching of body language (and speech characteristics), usually between two people, which helps build feelings of trust and empathy. Mirroring works like this because similar signals produce unconscious feelings of affirmation. When a person’s signals are mirrored the unconscious mind thinks, “This person is like me and agrees with the way I am. I like this person because we are similar, and he/she likes me too.” See NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and Empathy. Pacing refers to the mirroring of someone’s speed of movements.

Guys who aren’t interested are way more likely to maintain neutral or negative facial expressions. If he’s constantly smiling when he’s around you, that’s a decent sign he might like you – at least as a friend. 

The term ‘peacocking’ has been used to describe the ways that men make a display of their attraction to someone. This is a showy behavior that is designed to attract your attention. They are literally saying “look at me” with their behavior.

There are sometimes subtle – and sometimes not so subtle – movements, gestures, facial expressions and even shifts in our whole bodies that indicate something is going on. The way we talk, walk, sit and stand all say something about us, and whatever is happening on the inside can be reflected on the outside.

There’s a manager at work that I am confused to whether he likes me or not. He started off staring at me ALL the time. He has joked around with me a couple of times also, has been helpful once or twice with tiny tasks. He becomes pretty nervous if we happen to end up going in the same direction and I’m behind him. He begins to reach out and starts touching whatever his hand can touch at that moment( I always turn and give him time to go where he needs to when I can). He has winked at me once when he first started showing me attention (It was a sexy wink not a silly playful one). The other day I was talking to a customer and he and I were laughing. My manager came by and looked at me. At that point he became pretty upset with me and didn’t speak or look at me for two days. I don’t understand why his behavior has become so confusing. One day he will show interest another he doesn’t. One thing he does non stop is stares at me. I feel like he likes me but being a boss has made it difficult for him.

The study and theory of body language has become popular in recent years because psychologists have been able to understand what we ‘say’ through our bodily gestures and facial expressions, so as to translate our body language, revealing its underlying feelings and attitudes.